Opening Up to Open Adoption (With Unintended Help from Hollywood)
[Ed. note--I am pleased to welcome new contributor Ethan Brooks-Livingston to the OAB team! He will be exploring openness from the perspective of a prospective adoptive parent in his monthly column,...
View ArticleCan I Trust You? Will You Trust Me? : Moving Beyond Pre-Adoptive Parent Fears
From the beginning, when my wife and I made the decision to pursue an open adoption, the issue of trust has been constantly on our minds. We came to adoption after a couple of years struggling with...
View ArticleIn the Moment: A Pre-Adoptive Dad’s Thoughts on Gratitude
Thanksgiving has made November the month for blogging about gratitude. In the weeks leading up to today, I’ve seen quite a few blog projects and posts about what people are grateful for–some of them...
View ArticleAn Opportune Moment: Working on Mindfulness During the Great Wait
It’s no big secret among those who know me best that I have a hard time with things that are out of my control. I’m not great with the great unknown that is this weird space in between all the...
View ArticleWhen the Days Feel Darkest: Waiting, and Wrestling with Fear
For some reason, our road to become parents through open adoption has turned me, some days, into a bottomless pit of need for encouragement. Generally speaking, I am not a needy person. I usually have...
View ArticleJust Add Baby…Someday: Nesting During the Wait
Now that we’re five months into our “official” wait, we’ve settled into the reality that those fantastic stories of super-quick adoptions – the “we just got our home study approval three days ago,...
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